Girl on Top

Ask a guy point blank what does it for him in bed and he's likely to respond "Anything/Everything." So to really get your answer, I took this survey from Cosmopolitan magazine. Their sex poll emerged that men crave: You. On Top! "When a woman takes charge, we know you're turned on and into it." They also get a great view of your breasts and other sexy parts. And - let's be honest - their lazy asses don't have to do as much work when you're riding 'em. Not that we're complaining. After all, it's the most orgasm-inducing position for women. According to a certified sex educator, you can set the pace that'll get you off, and the angle is ideal for stimulating the two biggies: your G-spot and clitoris.

Guys are usually the ones in charge during sex, so the change of pace when you take over is incredibly arousing. It makes him feel like you can't get enough. Play up that you're calling the shots by blindfolding him right before he enters you or pinning his hands above his head as you grind into him.

Make It Sexier For You: Not only dominating him gives you a hot power trip, but you'll also be able to experiment with the tempo and angle that bring you the most satisfaction. Switch up the rhythm from hard and soft to a slow groove. Or shift your body, like leaning slightly back or to one side, and then bend all the way forward so your chest is pressed against his. You'll stimulate all different areas of your V zone this way.

Men are more visually oriented than women are, "Seeing a sexy image is key to their arousal" (sex therapist say). Plus, it's the only position where he really gets to witness you in action. So move in a way that enhances your curves and will will get him beyond frisky. Arch your back so your breasts thrust forward, in reverse, lean over a little and grab his toes, pushing your butt out.

Make It Sexier For You: The more confident you feel, the better sex will be. And when your guy is staring slack-jawed at your body, it's hard not to think you're hot as hell. As a result, every kiss, caress, and squeeze becomes extra mind-blowing. Don't just sit there and look pretty - max out the erotic benefits by putting on a mini show mid action. Keep on a front-closure bra, or a demi cup and when things start to get intense, unhook it so he can watch your breasts spill out. Seductively caress your breasts and the straps and then let them trail from your lips along your breasts and down your torso.

Gravity lends a hand. Not only does it feel incredible for both of you, but it gives him an ego boost as well. Guys like to go deep because it makes them feel bigger, powerful, and more macho. Ease just the head of his member into your vagina, and wrap your hand around his shaft to keep him from going any deeper than an inch. Gently move up and down until you can't stand it anymore. Then at last, remove your hand, and go for the full monty.

Make It Sexier For You: Head to the couch, and have him sit so he's slouched a little, carefully lower your body over him until you're squatting over this package, with your knees pointed outward. Guide him inside you, and glide up and down along his shaft. You can open your legs much wider than if you were kneeling, which allows him to go even deeper.

Girl-on-Top Worries (Solved): You may think you're sporting some extra chunk, but your guy sure won't notice. If you're still self-conscious, flatter your body by candle light or keep on one of his button-down shirts to conceal just a little bit. Stay in the moment by locking eyes with

him and zoning in on what you're feeling.